Anger is a natural and normal emotion that any person |
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would feel. It should be expressed in a proper way or |
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else it will result to harming yourself or others |
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socially, mentally, and physically. It should be |
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resolved before it ignites and becomes difficult to |
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manage. Here are some easy and helpful ways to quickly |
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resolve the feeling of anger. |
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Find a safe place or spot to express your anger. |
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Cursing, yelling, slamming doors or breaking your toys |
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doesn't guarantee resolving your anger. It will only |
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hurt your friends or families when you do that. It will |
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only worsen the situation. Instead of doing that, you |
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can go to a safe place like the basement of your house |
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and you can scream all you can. You can also kick small |
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cans in the garage or throw tennis balls in your |
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backyard. You can also use the punching bag in order for |
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you to divert your anger. You will then feel that your |
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anger has subsided. |
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Take a deep breath. Taking a deep breath relaxes your |
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mind and body. This will also give you ample time to |
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think over the situation before you react negatively to |
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it. It will free your body from tiredness as anger is |
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easily triggered by being tired from all the physical |
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activities that you have done throughout the day. You |
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will then feel relaxed and energized at the same time. |
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It will also free your mind from the tension and stress |
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that you are feeling at the moment. |
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Count from numbers one to ten. It may sound simple but |
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this method has worked for many centuries. It is a very |
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effective method when you count from numbers one to ten |
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before you open your mouth. This will help you control |
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and lower down your temper. This will divert your |
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feelings from being angry to being rational. |
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Relax and give yourself a break. When you are in a |
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situation and you feel like bursting out - leave the |
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room, walk, whistle a tune and take a snack. This will |
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enable you to clear your mind and you will have control |
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over your emotions. You will have enough time to examine |
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the situation, find the solutions and resolve it. |
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These ways are simple but very helpful. It is important |
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that you learn to practice these in order for you to |
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resolve your anger when the need comes. This will help |
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you to express your anger in a positive way that would |
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be very beneficial for you and your loved ones. |
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