Do you happen to be one of those people that's asking |
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how can confidence affect performance of a person? If |
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yes, then this article is meant for you. You see, it is |
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known that self confidence is a very crucial factor to |
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achieve performance whether it be performance in a game, |
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in work, in your personal life or in any other aspect of |
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your life. |
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It is inevitable that you will sometimes feel low or |
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down but then it is not something you should be worried |
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about. Feeling low once in a while is normal. Just make |
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sure that it does not forever stay that way. As a matter |
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of fact, there are so many things a person can do about |
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improving belief in one's self. Here are just some of |
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them that you might want to know about: |
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1. Evaluate yourself. First of all, make sure you list |
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down all your positive traits as well as all your |
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strengths as a person. To do this efficiently, make sure |
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you make the list according to each kind of hat you wear |
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in life. In that way, you can easily pin down the |
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aspects of your life that you will need to improve. The |
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minute you are finished listing them down, browse |
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through them again and you will surely find yourself |
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smiling because for a long time you have forgotten how |
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important and how valuable you are to your family, your |
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peers, your colleagues and to this world. At that moment |
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you will find you are more motivated to contribute more |
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with the talents and skills that you have. |
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2. Translate negative comments to positive. Never be put |
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down by negative comments or feedbacks. Think of them as |
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constructive criticisms that can be very instrumental |
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for your growth and development as an individual. Make |
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sure you focus on one negative trait or characteristic |
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to work on each time. Working on them altogether in one |
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fell swoop might just do more harm than good. By doing |
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this, you will eventually find yourself gaining more and |
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more confidence each day. |
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3. Believe In yourself! Do not destroy the spirit in you |
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by not having confidence in yourself. If after one |
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attempt you do not succeed in getting your goals, try |
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and try again. Do not lose hope in just one adversity. |
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After all; you should bear in mind that opportunities |
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often come disguised as predicaments and difficulties. |
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4. Last but not least, practice Bandura's Self-Efficacy |
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Theory wherein it assumes that self-efficacy is very |
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important in a person. To have it, you must first know |
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what behaviors you will need to possess in order to |
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achieve competence in your performance. If you are an |
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athlete or simply into sports, you will find this |
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principle very useful in helping you achieve the kind of |
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performance you need to achieve. You see, confidence is |
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no doubt powerful in bringing out the best in a person - |
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and that would of course be possible only with having a |
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high level of confidence in one's self. |
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